Idasinthidwa Komaliza pa Julayi 19, 2023 by Fumipets
“Chonde Lekani”: Sault Ste. Marie Woman Achonderera Anthu Kuti Alemekeze Malo Agalu Ake Omutsogolera
Kuyenda Moyo Ndi Kutayika Kwamasomphenya
Melissa Arnold, ndi Sault Ste. Marie wokhala ndi mayi wa ana awiri, sadziwika kuti akuyenda m'mipanda kapena kuyenda m'makoma. Ndi gawo la zochitika zake za tsiku ndi tsiku, chifukwa amakhala ndi vuto la macular, vuto lomwe limapangitsa kuti asawone. Mkhalidwe wosintha moyo umenewu unam’pangitsa kudalira agalu otsogolera kuti ayende m’malo ake. Ngakhale kuti amakumana ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku, Arnold akupitirizabe kugwira ntchito ndi kuphunzira, kukana kuti vuto lake lilamulire moyo wake.
Komabe, nkhawa ikupitilirabe m'moyo wake - chikhumbo chosalekeza cha anthu kuti azilumikizana ndi galu wake womutsogolera. Wophunzira wa chaka chachiwiri pa yunivesite ya Algoma, Arnold akufuna kuti anthu amve zambiri komanso kuti azilemekeza ntchito yofunika kwambiri yomwe galu wake womutsogolera amachita pamoyo wake.
Kusintha Kwadzidzidzi ndi Mnzake Waubweya
Kuyamba kwa masomphenya a Arnold kunali kwadzidzidzi komanso kosayembekezereka. Pafupifupi zaka 14 zapitazo, adadzuka ndikupeza kuti satha kuonanso bwino kuchokera m'diso lake lakumanja, zomwe zimafotokozedwa kuti "katikati mwa masomphenya ake tangochoka". Patapita zaka zitatu, diso lake lakumanzere linatsatiranso zomwezo. Kuyamba kwadzidzidzi komanso koopsa kwa maso ake kunasiya madokotala akudodoma. Arnold anafotokoza kuti, "Mawonedwe anga ozungulira ndi abwino, koma zimakhala ngati kukhala ndi nkhonya yaikulu yachabechabe pakati".
Kuyambira 2015, Arnold wakhala akudalira agalu otsogolera kuti amuthandize. Galu wake wam'mbuyomu, Ginger, anali wodziwika bwino ku Extendicare Maple View, zomwe zidabweretsa chisangalalo kwa okhala kunyumba yosungirako okalamba panthawi ya mliri wa COVID. Mnzake waubweya wa Arnold pano ndi Labrador wachikasu wazaka zinayi dzina lake Cherry, yemwe, zokhumudwitsa kwambiri za Arnold, ndizokopa chidwi ndi anthu.
Kuyanjana ndi Anthu: Lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse
Ngakhale kukonda Cherry pagulu kungawoneke ngati kopanda vuto, kumabweretsa zovuta zazikulu kwa Arnold. Anthu omwe amalumikizana ndi Cherry amasokoneza kuyang'ana kwa galu, zomwe zitha kuyika Arnold m'malo oopsa. “Anthu amayenera kunyalanyaza galuyo – kunamizira kuti kulibe,” Arnold akugogomezera, “Ndizovuta chifukwa ndi wokongola kwambiri. Koma sindikufuna kupitiriza kuyendera agalu atsopano chaka chilichonse chifukwa maphunziro ake amawonongeka chifukwa cha anthu omwe amamumvetsera. "
Akusimba zomwe zidachitika pamasewera a Soo Greyhounds pomwe mayi wina adayamba kusisita Cherry, ndikusiya Arnold atasokonezeka komanso kutayika. Kuyanjana koteroko, Arnold akunena, kungakhale ndi zotsatira zowononga. Iye akuyerekeza ndi kutulutsa munthu wopuwala panjinga yake kapena kukwatula ndodo za munthu wothyoka mwendo.
Kukulitsa Chidziwitso: Maphunziro ndi Kulingalira
Kupatula zovuta zomwe anthu amakumana nazo ndi Cherry, Arnold amakambanso za kukanidwa komwe amakumana nako chifukwa cha Cherry. Iye amakumbukira nthaŵi zina pamene madalaivala amakedzana anamukana chifukwa cha galu wake womulondolera. Iye wati pakufunika maphunziro achangu okhudza agalu otsogolera, makamaka m’sukulu ndi m’mayunivesite. Akuyembekeza kuti kufalitsa chidziwitso kungapangitse kuvomerezedwa ndi kulemekeza agalu otsogolera.
Ngakhale pali zopinga, Arnold amatha kusunga nthabwala zake, akuzigwiritsa ntchito ngati njira yothanirana ndi vutoli. Amadziwa kuti Cherry, monga munthu aliyense wamoyo, ndi wopanda ungwiro ndipo akhoza kulakwitsa. Komabe, amalimbikitsa anthu kuti aziyang'ana zizindikiro, monga chingwe chowala bwino kapena chilembo chonena kuti, “Chonde musandigone – ndikugwira ntchito,” musanayandikire galu wotsogolera. "Sikuti aliyense amene ali ndi galu wotsogolera ndi wakhungu kwathunthu - ena a ife amatha kuwona pang'ono," akuwonjezera.
Kudziwitsa anthu komanso kulemekeza udindo wa agalu owongolera ndikofunikira kwambiri popanga malo otetezeka kwa anthu ngati Arnold. Ngakhale kugunda pamutu pa Cherry kumatha kuwoneka ngati chikondi chosavulaza, kumasokoneza chizoloŵezi chokonzedwa mosamala ndipo kungapangitse Arnold pachiwopsezo. Motero, Arnold akuchonderera kuti, “Chonde pewani, ndipo lolani agalu azitsogolera.”
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